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May 11, 2026
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THE HEEADSSS ASSESSEMENT FRAMEWORK – AN INDEPENDENT ANALYSIS
In January 2024, a number of parents received a letter from the Public Health Nurse for Child and Youth Health at Te Whatu Ora, advising that the government had allocated specific funding for an “extra health and wellness check” to be offered to all Year 9 students (aged 12-13yrs) using the HEEADSSS Assessment Framework.
We looked into this Assessment and the conditions of its use. We engaged with a range of experts… lawyers, psychologists, psychotherapists, ex-principals and parents for their views.
As a result of concerns raised by these experts, this report was produced.
Request for information about ‘Inclusive School Culture’ policy
March 3, 2026
80-85% of New Zealand schools outsource their policy writing and publication to SchoolDocs, a private company. Recently we discovered that they have imbedded ‘gender identity’
NO Compulsory Topics in RSE
April 20, 2025
There are NO compulsory topics in RSE “Schools and kura have the flexibility to design their local curriculum, including their RSE curriculum. This means that
Identity & Identity Disruption Flier
April 11, 2025
Elisabeth Cave, referring to the work of Psychologist Dr Steven Stosny, developed the ‘Identity Pyramid’ to explain what is happening with our children who have
Nationwide Roadshow '24 - What's Going On With Our Kids?
Roadshow ’24
From April to July 2024 Penny Marie and Elisabeth Cave travelled around New Zealand sharing some of their extensive research and analysis. Our intention is to inform and empower. Don’t simply take our word – please do your own research and draw your own conclusions on the topics we discuss.
A list of all information referenced in our Roadshow is available for free download.
Part 1: The Big Picture
Part 2: Identity Disruption
Part 3: Policy vs People
The Induced 'Rainbow' Child
In The Media
NZ Update: Puberty Blockers, Media Bias, University ‘Experts’ Vs Common Sense
November 27, 2025
The media is awash with response to the NZ Governments’ annoucement on pausing puberty blocker prescriptions. Listen in to Penny Marie’s take… References to the
Penny Marie On The Anti-Trans Extremism Document Published By NZ Police
August 4, 2025
Sharing data on the ANTI TRANSGENDER EXTREMISM book by GENDER MINORITIES AOTEAROA (the name says it all…) Funded by the NZ Govt and available on
The Platform: Penny Marie On The ‘Lil Gay Out’ School Event
May 22, 2025
Latest Update on Substack Penny Marie published a revealing exposé of Lil Gay Out, an annual event put on at an Auckland secondary school, which
A Conversation With Cam Slater: The Good Oil Podcast
May 14, 2025
https://youtu.be/hZyVoXTz15M?si=Lz2RQn9fSjO2evp9 Grap a cuppa and tune in… as Penny Marie joins Cam Slater for an authentic, gutsy conversation, about a wide range of topics. We
Reality Check Radio: Behind The RSE Framework – What’s Really Happening In Our Schools?
May 6, 2025
With a few days left to discuss and respond to the Ministry of Education’s Draft Relationship & Sexuality Framework, Penny Marie has a chat with
Let Kids Be Kids on 1News: On The Draft New Relationships & Sexuality Framework
April 20, 2025
https://youtu.be/NP9JfeLfT1g?si=uAodMqxHHqk3kP0K The Ministry of Education’s Relationships & Sexuality Education Draft Framework consultation discussion made it into the news. Penny Marie was invited by Kate Nicol-Williams
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