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May 11, 2026
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THE HEEADSSS ASSESSEMENT FRAMEWORK – AN INDEPENDENT ANALYSIS
In January 2024, a number of parents received a letter from the Public Health Nurse for Child and Youth Health at Te Whatu Ora, advising that the government had allocated specific funding for an “extra health and wellness check” to be offered to all Year 9 students (aged 12-13yrs) using the HEEADSSS Assessment Framework.
We looked into this Assessment and the conditions of its use. We engaged with a range of experts… lawyers, psychologists, psychotherapists, ex-principals and parents for their views.
As a result of concerns raised by these experts, this report was produced.
Request for information about ‘Inclusive School Culture’ policy
March 3, 2026
80-85% of New Zealand schools outsource their policy writing and publication to SchoolDocs, a private company. Recently we discovered that they have imbedded ‘gender identity’
NO Compulsory Topics in RSE
April 20, 2025
There are NO compulsory topics in RSE “Schools and kura have the flexibility to design their local curriculum, including their RSE curriculum. This means that
Identity & Identity Disruption Flier
April 11, 2025
Elisabeth Cave, referring to the work of Psychologist Dr Steven Stosny, developed the ‘Identity Pyramid’ to explain what is happening with our children who have
Nationwide Roadshow '24 - What's Going On With Our Kids?
Roadshow ’24
From April to July 2024 Penny Marie and Elisabeth Cave travelled around New Zealand sharing some of their extensive research and analysis. Our intention is to inform and empower. Don’t simply take our word – please do your own research and draw your own conclusions on the topics we discuss.
A list of all information referenced in our Roadshow is available for free download.
Part 1: The Big Picture
Part 2: Identity Disruption
Part 3: Policy vs People
The Induced 'Rainbow' Child
In The Media
McBlog: Heeadsss-Up Warning To Parents
March 20, 2025
Have you heard of GoodSpace? And also the HEEADSSS Assessment. (If you haven’t, Let Kids Be Kids has been talking about it since 2024 –
KiwiBlog: Out Of Control Wakatipu High School
March 3, 2025
Featured on KiwiBlog, by David Farrar Rodney Hide has a tale that should be in a Monty Python comedy, but sadly is the reality in
The Centrist: Selective scrutiny: Charity status stripped for some, ignored for others
February 27, 2025
Summarised by Centrist Bob McCoskrie’s Family First lost their charity status due to alleged political activity in 2022 for advocating conservative social policies. Recently, Brian
RCR: Protecting Our Children: Education, Parenting & Gender Issues
February 26, 2025
In the wake of Rodney Hide’s recent situation at Wakatipu High School, Penny Marie and Rodney chat with Maree Buscke on Reality Check Radio. After
School Board Bans Rodney Hide From Concerns Over Inappropriate Sex Education
February 20, 2025
Former MP and current host on Reality Check Radio Rodney Hide has publicly criticised Wakatipu High School for age-inappropriate sex education content aimed at his
Reality Check Radio: Elisabeth Cave: Education Researcher – on Schooling & Society: The Shifting Tide & Troubling Trends
February 3, 2025
Elisabeth Cave and Rodney Hide tackled the concerning shifts in modern education during an eye-opening conversation that exposed how psychology-based teaching is harming children’s development.
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